She called me her little problem solver, but I said to her, "There are no problems, just solutions we have not yet found".
This
situation is very typical when most people come across difficult
situations in their lives. They immediately refer to it as a "problem."
Life in general is difficult and we are often faced with challenges that
we either have no experience in dealing with or have trouble coming to
terms with. So, why do we immediately want to call everything difficult
in life a problem?
An optimist would say that there are no problems, just solutions not yet found.
Most
people that refer to difficult situations as problems have probably not
thought about the solutions to their problems. They are in a panicked
state (like my friend was) and their first reaction is to think
negatively about it. I will give you an example. Imagine you are walking
along a footpath and you come across a brick wall. What are your
thoughts?
If you are like most people you will see this as the end
of the journey. However, if, like me, you think in terms of what the
solution may be then you will see that you can do one of many things.
Now
I'm not saying any of these solutions are easy and it all depends on
the tools and facilities you have available to you at the time. Each one
(including turning back) requires additional effort - but then no one
said life was easy, did they? However, by expending that little bit more
effort you achieve your goal.